To really go down to this subject, we need to understand the origin of man and woman. There are two theories that tells us where does human being come from. The first one will be 'evolution' which states that man evolved from apes. If you are the believer of this theory then i wish you goodnight and you need not keep on reading to save your time. With all respect, i do not believe in this theory and what i'm going to write is all based on the second theory. The theory that i believed in is that there is a God and it is He that created both man and woman. Please do not ask me ,then who created God? This is not my subject for today.
There is a certain group of people who believed that God created everything. He actually created man first to work on the ground. Man was created from the dust of the ground and God give him a breath of life and he became a living being. Then God thought that he is lonely and created animals to accompany him. This is why you see humans like to keep pets to accompany them because animals are created in the first place to be a humans companion. But this man was not really satisfied with animals and God says i will create another human being from his body to be his partner. Then God really created a fellow human from this man's rib and named her woman. When the man saw this woman, he was really happy that he finally found a perfect suitable companion. That is how she is call wo man which means wife of man. You see it, w.o stands for wife of. Woman actually came from man and it is how the word woman are formed. This is the reason why man from the very first day they are born they are actually looking for the woman who have one of their ribs to complete them. For this reason a man will leave his parents to be united with his wife and they will become one flesh. They are one flesh actually from the beginning. It explained why lovers loved sex because they are one. Lovers love to be united.
Now i need to explain about nature for you to understand something deeper. You see, in life there is a lot of changes and one thing that never change is nature. The sun will always rise from the east and set on the west. The earth will forever be turning 24 hours a day. The trees are there for a purpose and if been chop down too much then nature will go chaos. Look at tsunami and earthquake that struck. It sends a message that nature have been disturbed.
Same goes with man and woman. Like i explained, man is always looking for the missing rib in him that is in a woman somehere. That is why you see man will usually start the move to woo a woman because he is looking for something mising. Man is also the first to be created and he should be the head of the house. Disharmony will arise if the woman try to take over as No 1 because by nature this should not happen. This is when war will start (it's saving private ryan at home). You can see even in sex position that man like to be on top of woman and woman usually like to be in surrendered position. It shows sign of authority. This is not an ego but nature .
I believed uncurable disease like aids have exist because man are not created to have sex with animals, man with man or woman with woman. It clearly shows nature have been disturbed and disaster struck. Man exist to find his companion who have his missing rib and that is how it can complete him. You hear people say man will get matured when they got married because they have found their missing 'link'.
So, know that man and woman are actually one and man will always be looking for a companion to make him 'complete.' To all my fans "Happy Marriage"
2 comments:
In my humble opinion;
Man will go all the way to just find his woman? Of course. When we are talking about a lifetime of togetherness, what won't we do to win that special someone's love? We will do anything.
It's not easy for men to understand women or vice versa simply because Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, right? But for love to last, we must make effort to understand one another. The best thing in lives are free but it is one that we can obtain only through the greatest effort.
A man should make the first move because if he can't even do that, how can he takes care of his woman right? Still, there is something exciting about a woman who has the guts to make the first move and she should not be looked down upon.
Women taking over as the head of the house could really damage the relationship NOT because they are incapable but because deep down inside, this is not how both the man and woman wants it. Or as you say, not intended by nature. However, someone also told me, that a man may be the head of the house but his woman is the neck that turns the head. In essence, a man as the head cannot rule with an iron fist but with his queen by his side.
Well, this is what I thought but what do I know? You are the one with the happy marriage and happy family right?
definately pencilman 4 love to last, effort need to be make n d point i trying to make is man have found their missing rib so at all cost marriage should not be given up easily.4 woman to make first move is o,k but i feel in d end men will take more iniative to woo bcos like i said again he is trying to looking 4 something that he lost.anyway is juz a theory n thanks 4 yr comment.
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