DANCING IN THE RAIN

Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

Live simple,

Love generously,

Speak kindly,

Care deeply.

Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass,

It's about learning to dance in the rain.

WHAT'S YOUR TEAM?

Tonight will be a big night if you are living in Spain or Germany. Nevertheless it is an exciting day for football fans around the world. In this Euro 08, my favourite team will be Portugal, Holland and Spain. All three have been playing free flow and attacking game which fascinate me the most. Unfortunately Portugal and Holland have been knocked out too early in this competition. But i'm glad that Spain have make it to the final after all this long years of under achievement. Spanish league which are shown in our TV is the most exciting league i would say. I'm fascinated with their speed and individual skills which you only see in South American players. They play a lot of short passes. Now there is quite a number of them playing in England and it have definitely lifted the standard of English Premier League.

Fernando Torres will be my favourite player and it would be great if he score tonight. The sad thing is he play for Liverpool which i don't support. I'm predicting tonight will be highly skills against strategy. Germans is a team which are just average but are very good in planning their strategy. With right strategy, they can neutralised Spain's strength. But i believe Spain will go on and lift this Cup because the hunger for it is very much in their players heart. It's far too long a wait for a highly skills Spanish side and this will be a moment for all Spaniards and their fans all over the world including me.
P/S : Give me your prediction?

WHO ARE YOU ?

Our attitude towards the world around us depends upon what we are ourselves. If we are selfish, we will be suspicous of others. If we are of a generous nature, we will be likely to be more trustful. If we are honest with ourselves, we won't always be anticipating deceit in others. In a sense, looking at the people around you is like looking in a mirror. You see a reflection on yourself.
Secret of a happy life - an attitude of unselfishness. But many can tell you that you will be taken advantage of if you begin to live for others but i strongly believed in "you lose few but gain many". There's nothing perfect on earth. You choose who you are!

ALL FOR ONE, ONE FOR ALL

No man is an island, especially not in a corporate world. Learning to complement the other members of your team is therefore essential for long-term success. Voice your opinions (even if it cost your head), give honest feedback (not in vengeance) and share ideas on how to make things easier (success not always come in hard way), faster and more productive. This will enable your team to work effectively together as one, for the benefit of all.

I'M GONNA GET YOU ! PART 2

As for guys, out of the 5 senses that we have, sight is the strongest. That's why when guys see beautiful girls , head will turn. So, ladies, to attract the guy that you want, appearance and dressing is very important. It is vital for ladies to use make-up. This is not only useful in attracting a boyfriend but can be used for job interviews or in sales where you are dealing with a man. Ladies, sight is a very strong sense for male. It's been proven. Just look at most shampoo advertisement whereby you see a girl with beautiful long hair will just 'flip' the hair and the guy will watch in awesome. It doesn't matter if you are born pretty but it is very important to make up and dress yourself to look beautiful. Second most important sense for man is hearing. Now this is very different from woman hearing sense. What the guy look for in a woman is her voice. A girl who knows how to use her voice tone can get anything they want from a guy. Guys like to be pestered by girls eg a girl who wants a diamond ring will always use a soft tone like" errr!! Honeyyy, you never buys anything for me as gift, whyyy! i'm not important in your heart, is it? Hearing, i would say is man weakness and it also depend on how good is a woman persuasion skills. That's the reason why good male or female singers make a lot of money from singing because basically human from both sexes have a sensitive hearing sense.


Majority of man that i know, likes girl with long and beautiful hair with few in exception. Girls, please spend a little bit of money on your hair. That is why you see in muslim women they will cover up their hair which i believed a beautiful hair can 'seduce' a man. There are also girls which i know after a very heart broken break up will cut their hair to become short just as to show their hatred towards guys. This is just my view and i can't confirm how true it is. So, ladies your hair is an important weapon to attract your guy.


The rest of the senses like touch, smell and taste is not that important to attract your man. If you can deal especially with man's sight and hearing sense, then ladies you are on the way to get your prince.

I'M GONNA GET YOU ! PART 1

Finding our loved ones will be one of the most interesting chapter of our life. I believed each and everyone of us will have an interesting experienced to share, be it happy or sad. Some believed that finding our loved ones is fated and if he or she comes, then let it be. But i believe we will not know the future , so when opportunity knocks , let's grab it. Who is not looking for the best husband or wife?

I've had asked quite a number of guys what type of girls do they attracted to and vice versa . The answer is almost the same across the country or the world no matter what race, language or cultural background you are .

To really get your partner, first ,we have to understand what 'arouse' the guy or a girl. To go into this, we have to know our 5 senses. The 5 senses are see , smell , hear , taste and touch. So, i go with the ladies first. Girls are usually aroused the most with hearing and touching senses followed by smell, see and lastly taste. Why do i said that. Just look at romantic movies. The most touching part of the movie for a woman is when a guy knell down before her girlfriend and propose to her while holding her hand with a ring and saying the most romantic words, and all the girls will be like , Wow! this is how i want my boyfriend to propose to me next time! So, what do the guy in the movie do, that is to arouse her hearing and touch senses which is most sensitive in a woman. Most women , i can bet with you ,will usually look for a guy who have a very good sense of humour or those who can speak out the most caring words. If you have both of them , then you are a 'woman killer' , boy ! That's why a girl will always like to hear her boyfriend says "I Love You". Now we go to the touch sense. When a girl is in love with a guy, she expect him to hold her hands and hug her often. You see, when you teased girls, and they laugh, they will usually pat at your shoulder. It just show their touching senses is strong. Let's look at the negative side. If you try to touch a girl that didn't quite like you, be careful because she'll label you an 'opportunist' and you'll get 'blacklisted'. Your chances of getting this girl is almost equivalent to seeing a dinosaur alive today. If she likes you, then some form of touching is a sign that she quite like you as a friend or she have given you the green light to pursue her.(having said this, i would advise guy not to make the first move of any touching and you have to test the water first, eg. if you invite her to dance and she accept, then it shows both of you have gone to a comfortable level. If she doen't accept, then don't forced as she is not comfortable with you and you have to aroused her hearing senses first.

Then we go to smell. Girl usually like to put on perfume or received flower is because it'll arouse their smelling senses. For guys, please, if you have bad smelly odour in your body, hair or any part of the body , kindly deal with it when you are pursuing a girl because your success rate do depend on how you deal with their smell sense. Guys, you also can put on Cologne when dating a girl.

As for sight and taste senses, i do not need to go into it as i believe your success of wooing a girl does not heavily depends on how to aroused this senses. Guys, just wear decentlty and bring the girl to eat what she likes. Common sense will help you in this. If you can deal with a woman's hearing and touching senses, then you stand a big chance to get her. To aroused their smelling senses is a bonus to you. Whether a guy is fat or skinny, good looking or not is not a big factor for a woman who is looking for a husband as their sight sense is not so strong.

Ladies, as on how to get your man......................TO BE CONTINUED



The author will like to apologise for not being able to finish this article because currently is a football season and he did not do full time blogging. He will post the next part as soon as possible. Sorry for any inconvenieced caused

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